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Oh that journey home from the hospital with your new baby is so emotional: exciting and terrifying all at the same time. Choosing the best going home outfit as a new mom is a necessary step in packing your hospital bag. You’ve just accomplished something extraordinary, and your go home outfit should make you feel […]

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If there’s one thing I’ve learned since becoming a mom, it’s that a good diaper bag is as essential as those teeny-tiny, adorable onesies your little one will soon outgrow. With so many options out there, how do you choose? We’ve done the heavy lifting for you and compiled a list of top-notch diaper bags […]

Best Diaper Bags

If you’ve been following me for a while, it’s no secret that my family really values a good, home-cooked meal. So as you’re preparing for those chaotic days and weeks with a newborn, I highly, highly recommend building up your freezer stash so dinner doesn’t become a stressful topic. Freezer meals prepped before the baby […]

best freezer meals for new moms
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No fluff—just the actual ways to use ChatGPT daily to save 20+ hours a week as a working mom. In this Toolkit Series episode of The New Modern Mom Podcast, I  dive into the practical use cases of ChatGPT and how working parents can actually use it to reclaim time, reduce mental load, and bring […]

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Traveling is a huge priority for my young family. My two kids have already racked up more flights than I ever did as a child, and we’re always planning our next adventure. I get a ton of questions about traveling with babies and toddlers (in particular about staying in a hotel with a baby and […]

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I’ll be honest—I don’t use baby lotion every day. More often than not, baby skin doesn’t need it. Their little bodies are designed to regulate moisture pretty well on their own, and overusing lotions can sometimes be more irritating than helpful. But there are moments when a little extra hydration helps—like dry winter months, post-bath […]

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Ever walked into Target or Whole Foods thinking you’d just grab a quick baby wash along with the other items on your list and be out in minutes—only to end up standing in the aisle, flipping bottles over, Googling ingredients, and wondering why this has to be so complicated? Same. It’s wild how something as […]

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As a mom of two toddlers, my deep dive into the world of non-toxic products started the second my firstborn arrived. Before kids, I cared about non-toxic items like safe cleaning products, makeup, and skincare, but when I found myself responsible for this tiny, sensitive little being, it definitely hit differently. Suddenly, I wanted to […]

Traveling with kids is no small feat, but it’s something I’m incredibly passionate about. And just because life can get a bit… more (more loving, more messy, more chaotic, more humbling, more intense, more joyful) with kids, that doesn’t mean you have to give up on the adventures you love. It just means leaning into […]

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Toddler sleep is one of those things that I feel like doesn’t get talked about enough. Baby sleep? That’s covered—there are endless resources on wake windows, sleep regressions, and the best white noise machines. But toddler sleep? It seems like no one’s really talking a lot about it.  I mean… The stalling tactics. The sudden, […]

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However you choose to feed your baby, one thing is for sure—it’s hard work, and it’s super personal. If breastfeeding in any form is on your list—whether exclusive, combo, pumping, or some mix that works for your life—I’m sure you’ve considered a hands-free pump. And honestly? The options just keep getting better. Moms are busy, […]

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When I had my first baby, choosing a formula felt overwhelming. I wanted something clean, high-quality, and as close to breast milk as possible—but the best options always seemed to be overseas. That’s changed, thanks to U.S. brands like Bobbie and ByHeart, who’ve raised the bar with thoughtfully made formulas. ByHeart has used whole milk […]

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I remember the first time I attempted to swaddle my newborn son. I was sleep-deprived, squinting at a hospital nurse’s impossibly neat wrap job, and wondering how I’d ever recreate it at home. Let’s just say, my early attempts looked more burrito explosion than snug baby cocoon. If you’ve ever wrestled with a swaddle at […]

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When you’re prepping for your baby’s arrival or thinking about your baby’s nursery, a humidifier might not be at the top of your list—but it probably should be. The right one can help with congestion, dry skin, and overall sleep comfort, especially during colder months or in dry climates. And with so many types of […]

Let’s talk potty training. Specifically, the infamous 3 day no pants potty training method. If you’ve been deep in diaper duty and dreaming of the day your toddler finally gets the hang of using the toilet, there are so many parents nodding along with you. And I’ve been there, too. Twice, actually. When I first […]

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For many, being a mom can feel especially meaningful around Mother’s Day. I know I’m very lucky to be a mama to two amazing little ones and to have a partner who supports me in so many ways. I’m also surrounded by incredible moms—family, friends, neighbors, co-workers—who deserve to feel seen and celebrated, even with […]

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Ever found yourself thinking, “How am I supposed to keep track of everything going on in this house?”—Hearth Display is here to save the day. It’s like having a digital assistant dedicated to organizing your family’s chaos. From syncing everyone’s schedules to creating routines the kids will actually follow, this sleek, smart calendar turns family […]

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Becoming a mom is a life-changing experience—beautiful, transformative, and yes, completely overwhelming. It’s as though no one can honestly prepare you for the love you’ll have for your baby, but also for just how much you’ll second-guess yourself or how deeply you’ll feel the weight of trying to do it all. And somewhere in the […]

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Motherhood is life-changing in ways you never fully expect—emotionally, physically, and yep, professionally. The term motherhood penalty might not have crossed your mind before becoming a mom, but chances are you’ve felt its impact at some point. A slower career progression? Reduced earning potential? The overwhelming need to “prove yourself” at work? Moms face unique […]

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Welcoming a new baby is a joyful, exhausting, and completely life-altering experience. Whether you’ve just become a first time parent or you’re adding to your family, let’s be honest, figuring out the roles and dynamics of parenthood as a couple isn’t always the easiest thing. And if you’ve ever wondered, “How much should a husband help […]

Life with two toddlers is nonstop, and between juggling work, opening another Pilates studio in California, and keeping up with everyday chaos, dinner often sneaks up on me. By 5 p.m., my kids are starving (hello, hangries!). And I’ve come to accept this isn’t the season of life where I have perfectly prepared dinners on […]

Nurture Life Review
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Deciding to leave your job after maternity leave—for a new role or a pause—is a big, emotional choice. There’s plenty of debate about making big career moves after having a baby. But those first few months bring fresh perspective and clarity. For me, the decision to change jobs became clear after returning from my first […]

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I’ve found so many clichés of motherhood to be true, one of them being that your baby’s first year goes by in the blink of an eye. There are so many beautiful, exciting moments, but somehow, the details of firsts and milestones can feel hard to keep track of. I wonder why that is? (Couldn’t […]

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Contrary to what society suggests (and what I definitely believed), motherhood doesn’t mean losing yourself. Instead it’s a journey towards discovering your most authentic self. Motherhood has pushed me to grow in ways I never imagined, giving me the patience to see things clearly and the confidence to act with purpose. It’s helped me figure […]

Motherhood

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If you are building your nursery, convertible cribs are a must IMO. Anything that grows with your baby, think newborn to toddlerhood and beyond, is an investment worth looking into. These types of cribs not only save space and money in the long run, but they’re also a stylish and functional addition to any nursery. […]

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Meal prep has become an essential part of our week, and such a good habit I encourage you to get into. We cook most nights; one because we love to cook; two because it’s healthier; three because it’s more economical. And because we both work from home, that means breakfasts and lunches are also at […]

Weekly Meal Prep (Plus My Grocery List)

If you’re anything like me, you’re always on the lookout for little things that can make a big difference in the life of your family. Humidifiers might not be the first thing that pops into your head when you think about creating a cozy, happy environment for your little one, but trust me—they can be […]

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Valentine’s Day is one of those holidays that sneaks up on you—and suddenly, your kids need cards for a classroom swap, daycare, or to give to loved ones. The purpose is sweet, and as my son and daughter get older, I really love seeing them get excited about days like these, but it doesn’t need […]

Printable Valentines Day Card
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Figuring out the world of baby formula can feel overwhelming. And if you’re anything like me, you’ve probably spent late nights Googling ingredient lists, scrolling through reviews, and wondering what’s actually the best option for your baby. There’s no shortage of opinions, societal pressure, and mom guilt when it comes to how we feed our […]