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There’s nothing simple about the never-ending to-do list of a working mom. Even in those rare quiet moments, like when the kids are off with the grandparents for the morning and you finally sit down for a second, you’re still holding it all in your head. From keeping track of shoe sizes to mentally noting […]

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If you’ve ever wondered what having an au pair in your home (caring for your child, integrating into your family) is really like, I get it. I was right there too before we hosted our first au pair a few years ago. And after hosting multiple au pairs since, I can confidently say this: it’s […]

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It’s kind of wild how many do’s and dont’s come your way the second you announce a pregnancy. Some of them are just old-school myths, like the idea that heartburn means your baby will have a full head of hair or that craving sweets means you’re having a girl. They’re funny to hear, but not […]

Parenting little kids is hard. It’s also wonderful, but it’s definitely hard. There’s for sure no role quite like it. Nothing compares to the responsibility of raising tiny humans. You’re creating a foundation for an entire person’s life. And having a village can be so helpful in that process… until it isn’t. I’m guessing you’ve […]

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 Being sick as a parent hits differently. Gone are the days of curling up in bed with chicken soup, binging your favorite shows, and letting yourself recover at your own pace. Now, there are little people depending on you. Even when your energy is non-existent, your head is pounding, and the thought of making a […]

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Life with kids is all the things… joyful, exhausting, heart-expanding, nonstop. And yes, it’s typically a full blown logistical marathon. Between school drop-offs, snack prep, work meetings, laundry mountains, and trying to remember if you RSVP’d to that birthday party, there’s hardly time to think, let alone streamline your day. That’s why I’m always collecting […]

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Moms aren’t the only ones turning to the online world for advice and connection. Dads have carved out their own space too. The modern dad is figuring out parenting, work, and everything in between in ways that look different from past generations, and the internet has become a place where they share real experiences, hard-earned […]

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When my husband and I first started to go down the route of hosting au pairs for childcare, I had so many questions. And once we got into a good rhythm, the number of people asking me about the experience only grew. Friends, family, moms in the New Modern Mom community reached out, curious about […]

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Sometimes, driving with a baby can be, well, stressful (to put it lightly). You’ve got to get out of the house for grocery runs and doctor’s appointments. And then there are the sanity-saving outings like breakfast with a friend, a drive to the park, a quick trip to the beach for some fresh air, or […]

I’ve hosted a few au pairs over the years, and it’s been an incredible experience. Having live-in help that truly becomes part of your family, plus the added layer of cultural exchange, is something I wouldn’t trade. But I’ve also had a nanny, a house manager, and even summer child care while traveling abroad with […]

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There’s something so special about the milestones that shift the way your day-to-day life flows as a parent. I remember the season of constant babywearing and literally bouncing between the counter and the stove, trying to make dinner while keeping my baby close. And then came the high chair phase, where my babies could sit […]

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If you’re anything like me, maybe your days are a constant shuffle of meetings, toddler snack requests, school events, and that one errand you keep putting off. Finding time to breathe, let alone feel productive, can feel impossible some days. And that, fellow mamas, is where Motion comes in. It’s an AI productivity and task […]

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When I found out I was pregnant with my first baby, I spent hours (okay, maybe days) scrolling through Pinterest boards and saved Instagram posts trying to find a unique pregnancy announcement idea. With baby number two, I still wanted a cute idea to announce pregnancy. Something that was meaningful for our new addition, but […]

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There’s something so great about that first real stretch of summer. Longer days, warmer breezes, and the sense that life is meant to slow down just a little. But if you’re a nursing mom, summer also means figuring out feedings on the go, balancing comfort with confidence, and figuring out how to dress for both […]

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As a mom of two and a business owner, I get it, figuring out childcare can feel like one of the biggest decisions you’ll make. There are so many different ways to approach it, and at the end of the day, the most important thing is finding what works for your family. If you’re here, […]

Not ready to stop your concert-going adventures after having a baby? I’ve seen my fair share of babies at Outside Lands, and I applaud you for not letting a baby limit your fun outings! When it comes to keeping your little one calm in loud situations, like concerts, sporting events or festivals, one of the […]

Best baby headphones
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An honest mom’s review of kids multivitamin showdown: Hiya vs. Olly I try my best to be that parent who serves my child healthy food. But let’s be honest here… as a full time working mom I can’t always do it all (although weekly meal prep certainly helps), and sometimes macaroni and cheese, fish sticks, […]

Hiya Kids Multivitamins vs. Olly Kids Multivitamins
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The yogurt melts showdown Introducing solids is a lot of work (here are some tips from a pediatrician). Between preparing food, feeding and cleaning up, your time spent for mealtime increases exponentially (both Ready, Set, Food! and Nurture Life can seriously help here). Of course I was so excited when Willow started to master the […]

Yogurt Melt Showdown: Amara Smoothie Melts vs. Happy Baby Yogis

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I’ve been a loyal fan of Coterie diapers for a while now (read my full review here). But with so much buzz around Coterie vs. Millie Moon (a Strategist article caught the attention of many parents claiming this Target diaper brand is a Coterie dupe at a lower price point), I wanted to see if […]

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Breastfeeding is a beautiful bonding experience, but let’s be honest, it’s not without its challenges. One of those challenges? Pumping on the go. You need to carry a lot, and I mean a lot, of stuff. We’re diving into best breast pump bags to help you find that just-right fit for your unique pumping situation. […]

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Which high chair doesn’t sacrifice form for function? I put them to the test. One of my biggest concerns as a first-time-mom: my beautiful, curated, clean and organized home becoming a chaotic frenzy filled with unnecessary, and worse, ugly, baby products. So as with everything (including my deep dives on non-toxic baby shampoo, wipes, detergent—you […]

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If there’s one question that keeps popping up amidst my circle of expecting friends, it’s this: “Do you really like your Lalo High Chair?” And let me tell you, my response is always a resounding yes. Here’s the thing: a high chair isn’t just another baby product. It’s a piece of functional decor that’s going […]

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I was told before having my first baby that you need to be cautious about using a pacifier too early to avoid nipple confusion. So I researched to understand what the best pacifiers for best breastfed babies really means. Personally, I never had a nipple confusion issue with either of my kids and honestly don’t […]

Best pacifiers for breastfed babies
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This post may contain affiliate links including the Amazon Associates Program. When you make purchases through links in this post, I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.  I only endorse products I believe in.  High diaper absorbency means no leakage, no blowouts, no diaper rash, and a full night’s sleep. […]

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Oh that journey home from the hospital with your new baby is so emotional: exciting and terrifying all at the same time. Choosing the best going home outfit as a new mom is a necessary step in packing your hospital bag. You’ve just accomplished something extraordinary, and your go home outfit should make you feel […]

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If there’s one thing I’ve learned since becoming a mom, it’s that a good diaper bag is as essential as those teeny-tiny, adorable onesies your little one will soon outgrow. With so many options out there, how do you choose? We’ve done the heavy lifting for you and compiled a list of top-notch diaper bags […]

Best Diaper Bags
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If you’ve been following me for a while, it’s no secret that my family really values a good, home-cooked meal. So as you’re preparing for those chaotic days and weeks with a newborn, I highly, highly recommend building up your freezer stash so dinner doesn’t become a stressful topic. Freezer meals prepped before the baby […]

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No fluff—just the actual ways to use ChatGPT daily to save 20+ hours a week as a working mom. In this Toolkit Series episode of The New Modern Mom Podcast, I  dive into the practical use cases of ChatGPT and how working parents can actually use it to reclaim time, reduce mental load, and bring […]

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Traveling is a huge priority for my young family. My two kids have already racked up more flights than I ever did as a child, and we’re always planning our next adventure. I get a ton of questions about traveling with babies and toddlers (in particular about staying in a hotel with a baby and […]

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I’ll be honest—I don’t use baby lotion every day. More often than not, baby skin doesn’t need it. Their little bodies are designed to regulate moisture pretty well on their own, and overusing lotions can sometimes be more irritating than helpful. But there are moments when a little extra hydration helps—like dry winter months, post-bath […]