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Juggling the responsibilities of a nursing mother can often feel like a constant balancing act, with your baby on one side and a never-ending list of chores on the other. In the midst of this chaos, taking time for self-care can easily be overlooked. It’s essential to understand that taking care of yourself is just […]

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A couple of years ago, I found myself on a girls’ trip to Veil, Colorado, nestled cozily in condos linked to The Ritz. Picture this: snow gently falling outside, a massive fireplace roaring, and a circle of best friends catching up, laughter echoing off the grand room walls. As night fell, we decided to order […]

bourbon whiskey hot toddy
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In the quest to find the ideal breast pump, I know your choice often comes down to the Spectra S1 vs Spectra S2. Both are top-of-the-line models known for their performance, comfort, and efficiency in supporting nursing mothers. Understanding the key differences and unique features of each model can help in making an informed decision […]

Ever feel like choosing a diaper is like navigating a labyrinth of trendy words and catchy claims? The industry is swarming with greenwashing and misleading marketing, so I’m here to guide you through this crazy maze. I care a lot about the products I put on my babies, so when I asked my community what […]

greenest and cleanest diapers
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Being a parent comes with its fair share of challenges, and one of the most intimidating is potty training. It’s messy, time-consuming, and can be downright frustrating, but trust me, the end result is totally worth the effort. After the toilet fills up, imagine dancing a victory dance with your beaming toddler. It’s a moment […]

Free printable potty training chart
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Not ready to stop your concert-going adventures after having a baby? I’ve seen my fair share of babies at Outside Lands, and I applaud you for not letting a baby limit your fun outings! When it comes to keeping your little one calm in loud situations, like concerts, sporting events or festivals, one of the […]

Best baby headphones

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Embarking on the adventure of parenthood doesn’t mean you have to put your wanderlust on hold; it just means your travel experiences will now include a little more planning, a few more pit stops, and a lot more joy. Learning how to road trip with a baby for the first time might seem daunting, but […]

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How to road trip with a baby
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Finding out you’re going to have a baby is one of life’s thrilling moments, and your first thought is likely, “How do I tell him I’m pregnant?” quickly followed by panic on how your body is about to change dramatically. Sharing such big news can be an overwhelming task, especially when you want it to […]

How do I tell him I'm pregnant
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Have you heard about the concept of a ‘Yes Day’? I’ve wondered what exactly all the hype is about?  Jason and I are in constant discussion about whether we “give in” to Caden too easily. Truth be told, we have differing opinions. For example, he’s okay with Caden wearing his rain boots on a sunny […]

What Is a Yes Day for Kids

Finding the best breastfeeding snacks that are not only tasty but also promote good health and milk production can be a bit daunting. After all, when you’re juggling the responsibilities of a new baby, you crave convenience as much as nutrition. Meal prep can certainly help here, but there are tons of easy to grab […]

Best breastfeeding snacks
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As moms, we’re always on the lookout for the safest, most effective ways to take care of our little ones’ boo-boos, right? From scraped knees in the park to those mysterious little cuts they somehow always seem to get, it’s like a never-ending cycle of ‘ouchies’ and ‘uh-ohs’. I’ve always preferred to take a natural, […]

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Sick season is upon us, which means you’ll likely be battling your toddler to take medication sometime soon. There is nothing worse than your child having a fever, but refusing medication to help ease the temperature. They are upset, you are upset, it’s all around a frustrating experience. I want to help you understand how […]

Caden demonstrating how easy it is to get a toddler to take medicine

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I’ve got some exciting news for you! Lalo, a beloved brand among modern parents including me, just dropped their newest product, The Play Box, for babies and toddlers starting from newborn to 2 years old. And it’s giving Lovevery, the OG of subscription play boxes, a run for its money. So I decided to put […]

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lalo play box vs. lovevery play box
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You’ve recently given birth and are wondering when your body’s going to start its cycle again. It’s a common question that many new moms have, and the answer isn’t always straightforward. Ovulation signs after giving birth vary from woman to woman and depend on various factors such as whether you’re breastfeeding, your overall health, and […]

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Whether you are actively trying to conceive or using a natural form of birth control to actively not get pregnant, knowing the signs of ovulation and recognizing when ovulation is over is key to success. So I tapped into an expert, Dr. Nicole Tod of North Texas Women’s Healthcare, to walk us through the subtle […]

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Deciding which is the best breast pump for work is one part of the complicated journey of returning from maternity leave. Pumping at work, and finding the right equipment, setup and routine are tasks that can seem daunting, but we’re here to help you through it. This guide is designed to help you navigate the […]

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You’re in the postpartum period, and it seems like your body has taken on a life of its own. From healing from childbirth to adjusting to the demands of breastfeeding, it can feel like you’re on an emotional and physical roller coaster. Essential oils are a wonderful way to ease some of the discomforts that […]

An amber essential oil dropper sits in front of a twig of cotton
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Let’s face the truth: motherhood isn’t all sunshine and lollipops. Sometimes, it feels like an endless cycle of sleepless nights, tantrums, and never-ending laundry. And in those moments, you might catch yourself thinking, “I hate being a mom.” I hate to admit it, but I often… like multiple times a week don’t feel like “moming.” […]

Mom screaming while children are playing

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When it comes to my diaper bag, I have two rules: 1) always restock it after the kids go to bed and 2) pack minimally. This allows for a less chaotic exit out the door in the morning, and ensures I don’t have permanent back damage from schlepping a little one, and all the stuff […]

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diaper bag essentials
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You’re expecting a baby girl and considering giving her a name that stands the test of time. As someone with a vintage name myself with a bit of Southern vibes, Barbara Gail, I definitely support your decision. Vintage girls’ names, those that were popular a century or so ago, are making quite a comeback. From […]

vintage girl names
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You’re expecting a baby boy and want to call him something that’s a bit out of the ordinary, something with a connection to the past – a vintage boy name. It’s time to take a nostalgic journey back in time to explore some charming and lesser-known names for boys. From the strong and stoic, embodying […]

vintage boy names

While there are countless options when it comes to gifts for new moms, I recommend prioritizing items that will make their journey into motherhood a little less daunting and a lot more comfortable. Plus some splurgy treats they may not have otherwise bought for themselves are sure to be a hit. In this list, I’ve […]

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An honest mom’s review of kids multivitamin showdown: Hiya vs. Olly I try my best to be that parent who serves my child healthy food. But let’s be honest here… as a full time working mom I can’t always do it all (although weekly meal prep certainly helps), and sometimes macaroni and cheese, fish sticks, […]

Hiya Kids Multivitamins vs. Olly Kids Multivitamins
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I have to admit, there are a lot of premium products I purchase for my baby, but expensive wipes had never been one of them. In the search for baby wipes safe for sensitive skin, I landed on Water Wipes, Pampers Aqua Pure and Coterie. I ended up using Pampers Aqua Pure with Caden after […]

Expensive Baby Wipes Showdown

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The Yogurt Melts Showdown Introducing solids is a lot of work (here are some tips from a pediatrician). Between preparing food, feeding and cleaning up, your time spent for mealtime increases exponentially. Of course I was so excited when Willow started to master the pincer grasp, because it meant I could start introducing foods where […]

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Yogurt Melt Showdown: Amara Smoothie Melts vs. Happy Baby Yogis
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I’ve spent HOURS researching skincare for myself. Little did I know I’d end up doing the same for my baby. When my daughter developed a red splotchy rash all over her face and neck, I knew I had to find a solution. I needed a face cream made for baby’s sensitive skin in mind that […]

ellaola review
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I’ve been a loyal fan of Coterie diapers for a while now (read my full review here). But with so much buzz around Coterie vs. Millie Moon (a Strategist article caught the attention of many parents claiming this Target diaper brand is a Coterie dupe at a lower price point), I wanted to see if […]

coterie vs millie moon

Alright, the final countdown is on to order those last minute holiday gifts for that special toddler in your life. Here’s what Caden asked for this year. Best part, I checked and they all are available on Amazon Prime to arrive before Christmas (for now). Happy holidays! 15 Last Minute Holiday Toddler Gifts from Amazon […]

15 Last Minute Toddler Holiday Gifts from Amazon
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When my newborn started breaking out in a scary red rash, I discovered those baby products I was using weren’t actually developed with sensitive skin in mind.  Motherhood is full of surprises. The number of google searches for “is this normal” in the first few months of my baby’s life has exceeded my total years […]

Baby Lotion Review: EllaOla vs. Aveeno vs. Cetaphil
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This is a guest post from my good friend and talented writer, Amanda Gregolunas, mama of two under two. As I approach the final days of my pregnancy, I’ve found myself getting more and more nervous for the days soon to come, trying to balance being Caden’s mama along with being mama to a brand […]

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